Saturday, December 6, 2014

7 Day Countdown to Company Cleaning Plan

I received this information via email, (thank you Ruby) which she obtained from somewhere on the internet.  

As I read through this I was impressed with the simplicity yet thoroughness of this almost relaxed approach to having your house company clean. Since there is usually much to do before your guests arrive, this seems like it would relieve some of the stress of putting it all together ahead of time so you can enjoy you visitors, and get to visit too. 

Here goes:

7-Day Cleaning Plan:

Day 1
1. Walk through your home with a visitor's eye, making notes of any imperfections you may be used to but guests may notice, such as houseplants with dead leaves.
2. Turn do-it-yourself tasks into a do-it-ourselves effort -- gather family members, go over the plan, and assign chores. Remember: many hands make light work.
 
Day 2
1. Wash windows and vacuum window screens.
2. Damp-mop baseboards.
3. Launder and press window and shower curtains.
4. Launder bedspreads if needed.
Day 3
1. Deep-clean bathrooms and medicine cabinets (yes, people will look).
2. Straighten bedrooms; remove clutter and donate or store out of sight.
Day 4
1. Straighten coat closet, making room for guests' coats. Add extra hangers if needed.
2. Wash throw rugs; set aside so they are nice and fluffy for wearing day
Day 5
1. Clean range or stove top, surfaces, and grates.
2. Clean out the refrigerator, making room for party foods; dust top of refrigerator.
3. Wipe down all large and small appliances.
4. Wipe down kitchen cabinets.
5. Take recycling to recycling bins or facilities.

Day 6

1. Sweep entryway, polish the doorknob, and decorate the entry with seasonal touches.
2. Dust all surfaces, including bookshelves, photo frames, and art. Don't forget the ceiling fans.
3. Clean kitchen sink and dish drainer.

Day 7
 Here are a few day-of 'touch-ups':
1. Clean trash receptacles and add fresh liners.
2. Wipe down any dirty areas in the bathroom using household cleaner and paper towels.
3. Wipe down bathroom mirrors and counters. Wipe down floors with a damp towel.
4. Put toilet bowl cleaner in the toilets; brush.
5. Hang fresh towels and put out fresh hand soap.
6. Damp-mop the kitchen floor.
7. Vacuum carpets and dry-mop wood floors.
8. Fluff sofa cushions and pillows.
9. Decorate with special touches, such as flowers or candles.


Hope your holiday gatherings with family and friends are full of joy, fun, and a lot of love. 


Sunday, May 12, 2013

Ten Needs of a Wife

Ten Needs of a Wife

  • She needs confidence that flows from your spiritual leadership.
  • She needs assurance that she is meeting your needs.
  • She needs joy in knowing that you delight in her as a person.
  • She needs peace in knowing you understand her limitations.
  • She needs the comfort of knowing that you lovingly protect her.
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  • She needs your focused attention and quality conversation.
  • She needs to know you are committed to her above everything else.
  • She needs to trust that you will not willingly deceive her.
  • She needs your loving affection that does not lead to the bedroom.
  • She needs your Christlike leadership and spiritual headship.
Copied from: A Faith Full Marriage, by Paul Chappell

Saturday, May 11, 2013

Ten Needs of a Husband


Ten Needs of a Husband

  1. http://www.anthonytrollope.com/VirtualContent/111043/original_61_Husband_and_wife.gifHe needs to be respected for who he is and what he does.
  2. He needs to be physically intimate with you frequently.
  3. He needs your gratitude for how hard he works to care for you.
  4. He needs your companionship in recreational activities.
  5. He needs your admiration and verbal encouragement.
  6. He needs a warm and welcoming home environment.
  7. He needs a home that is well kept and orderly.
  8. He needs you to give attention to being physically attractive.
  9. He needs you to learn how to make his favorite foods his way.
  10. He needs you to stand behind him cheering him on in life.

Copied from: A Faith Full Marriage, by Paul Chappell

Sunday, November 4, 2012

Recycle Used Dryer Sheets


Dryer sheets are a common item that is not necessarily expensive to purchase but we have become accustomed to a single use before throwing them out. There are however many ways to extend the life of a dryer sheet far beyond their intended use in keeping your home clean and comfortable.

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To begin with, dryer sheets are a fantastic tools to reduce the impact of static cling everywhere in the home. Television and computer screens wiped occasionally with a dryer sheet hold less static electricity, as do CDs and DVDs which means less dust will cling to them. Ever have a dress collect static electricity and cling to your lower body in an odd way? Try wiping the hose with a dryer sheet prior to getting dressed - problem resolved. The same goes for yarn and thread used in sewing and crafting that gets tangled. A quick wipe with a dryer sheet keeps these strands from becoming difficult to work with.

Don't forget that another useful aspect of dryer sheets is that they smell great too and can be used in drawers and closets to keep clothes and linens fresh. This goes for items that are only used a few times a year also - camping gear and luggage can benefit from adding a few dryer sheets to them before storing them away. Lastly, shoes and sneakers that hold bad odors can be made pleasant smelling again by placing a dryer sheet inside once of twice every week.

20 other ways they can be put to good use, after they've taken a spin through your dryer cycle...

1. Use it to dust your television screen. The anti-static chemicals in a dryer sheet will help to repel dust and lint.

2. Use old dryer sheets to easily wipe up talcum powder, flour, and other messes of this type.

3. Used sheets usually have enough fragrance in them to freshen up other areas in your home. Stuff them in tennis shoes, place them in closets, in laundry hampers and in pieces of luggage -- anywhere your house needs a little "refreshment."

4. Run a sheet over a piece of thread when you're doing sewing tasks. The thread won't tangle up as easy.

5. Have pet hair on your clothing? Simply wipe it off with a used dryer sheet! Also works great on cloth furniture too!

6. Keep dust and other contaminants off your glass computer screen by carefully wiping it with an old sheet.

7. Did you purchase some old, musty books at a garage sale or thrift shop? Make them smell good again! Simply place the books in a sealed plastic bag with a used dryer sheet. Allow the bag to sit undisturbed for a day or two, then remove the contents. The musty smell will be gone!

8. Got a problem with mice? Find where they are entering your house and stuff the hole shut with a used sheet. Mice won't chew through the smelly material.

9. Place a used dryer sheet in the bag of your vacuum. Sweep your house, and, once you're done, the air will smell as fresh as your clothes do.

10. These wonders of the 70's are also said to repel mosquitoes as well as other annoying, flying insects. Don't rub it on you. Instead, stick a used sheet in your belt loop.

11. You can use dryer sheets to clean and polish the chrome on your vehicles.

12. Is there a build-up of soap scum on your glass shower door? Simply use an old dryer sheet to eliminate the mess.

13. Is the interior of your car or truck smelling a little stale? Forget the pine tree on a string! Place a few used dryer sheets under the seats of your vehicle instead!

14. Use sheets to clean and polish the glass lens of your eye glasses. They're not recommended for plastic lens, though!

15. Is your hair dry and full of static electricity? Gently wipe a used dryer sheet over your head to get rid of it.

16. Dryer sheets make great dusting cloths for your wooden furniture.

17. Help keep dust and other contaminants out of your house. Simply place a used sheet inside every furnace/AC register in your house. Make sure it covers the openings and replace once they are dirty.

18. Keep your window blinds clean longer by wiping them periodically with used dryer sheets. The anti-static properties of the product will actually help to repel dust and dirt.

19. Are your scissors not cutting as smooth as they should? Wipe the blades clean with a used dryer sheet to remedy this problem.

20. Used dryer sheets make great little cloths for quick shine ups in the bathroom and kitchen too. Just use one on each of your chrome faucets and see how brightly they shine!

-compiled 2012

Saturday, November 3, 2012

SQUASH PIZZA





First of all, my first batch was made from a vague memory of a recipe I'd seen somewhere years ago. Secondly, that it turned out fabulously on the first try. Thirdly, it's easier to make than traditional pizza. Lastly, it is almost guilt free. Being low carbohydrate it still satisfies our pizza cravings without  the heavy, overstuffed feeling that many pizza lovers experience after indulging a bit too much. Plus its a great way to sneak more vegetables into your diet, or your children's diet, this is a great way to do it.

Squash Pizza?

 This  was a complete surprise to me. How so?


CRUST:
5 Cups grated/shredded squash-yellow or green, peeled or unpeeled.* We like ours peeled.
2 eggs, beaten
1/2 C grated parmesan/romano--the type in the "sprinkle" container
Garlic powder 1/4 tsp. or more to taste (optional)

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Preheat oven to 400-425F. Grease a cookie sheet that is at least 10 x 15 inches. (Increase baking time if using a smaller cookie sheet for a thicker "crust".)

Put all the above ingredients in a large bowl and mix thoroughly. Spread evenly onto your cookie sheet. Bake approx. 15 min. Keep an eye on it, and bake it until it is dry on the surface and the edges are browned (Bake longer if you prefer a darker "crust)   When it's brown enough, remove it from the oven to be topped.
 
TOPPING:
1/2-3/4 Cup tomato sauce (Leftover spaghetti sauce works great)
Shredded mozzarella cheese, about 2 cups (Substitute any cheese your family likes)
Plus any other toppings you care for-mushrooms, onion, ground beef, sausage....

Spread the sauce over the crust, adjusting the saucey-ness to your taste. Top with cheese and any other toppings you are using. 
Now, put the pizza back into the oven, baking until the cheese melts and is brown as you like. About 10 min.

Remove from oven and "slice" it  up. Allow it to rest for 3-5 minutes prevents losing cheese as you serve it.




* I plan to experiment with using vegetable spaghetti/spaghetti squash. If it works, I'll keep you posted.



Wednesday, October 26, 2011

TEN KEYS to Becoming A Good Keeper At Home

1. Acknowledge and accept God's will. 


 "Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is." Ephesians 5:17


2. Be dedicated and commited to God's will. 


 "I delight to do thy will, O my God: yea, thy law is within my heart." Psalm 40:8 


3. Walk in the Spirit (keep close to God). 
 "This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh." Galatians 5:16 


4. Have your priorities in order.  


  "Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification.
For even Christ pleased not himself; but, as it is written, The reproaches of them that reproached thee fell on me. We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves." Romans 15:1,2,3

5. Be organized. 


 "Let all things be done decently and in order." I Corinthians 14:40 



6. Learn from older (Godly) women.  

"The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." Titus 2:3,4,5  




7. Read encouraging literature


"Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things." Philippians 4:8



8. Fellowship with like-minded people


 "Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another." Romans 14:19 



9. Enjoy the home that God has provided for you.


 "Rejoice evermore. In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you."  I Thessalonians 5:16, 18 



10. Enjoy your husband and children.  



"
Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all."  Proverbs 31: 28,29  

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

"Holy Ground"

It may be on a kitchen floor,
Or in a busy shopping store,
Or teaching, nursing, day by day,
Till limb and brain almost give way,
Yet if there by Jesus thou art found, 
The place thou standest is Holy Ground.

By M. Colley

Monday, October 24, 2011

My Ministry

"...One statement filled me with hope. If God wants you to be a homemaker, and you spend your days washing dishes, and changing dirty diapers, they by fulfilling His plan for your life, you are worshipping God.  I had been working so hard to find ways to serve God outside of and excluding my family.When I finally realized that God doesn't require me to fulfill every need I see, and that my family IS my ministry. I was able to rejoice...."  -Clipped from an magazine; copied.

Monday, August 8, 2011

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Return to Bethel

It seems like every time I think I have settled my blogs and websites in a "new" home, the new place turns out to be not so hot. This is what happened again. Whew! I am really thankful that I didn't delete this blog when I was going to, or I'd have to begin from scratch again.

Over the next little while, I will be adding pages and moving articles and post back to blogger. I apologize for the craziness of all this.

When I began my website at geocities, I suppose that I thought it would be able to stay there forever. But geocities died off, and I was left with a website, at least it was smallish, to relocate. I hoped to use the same server/host as our church website, but that didn't work out very well. I've spend hours fighting with their "error refresh page" messages, or their "website cannot be found" to put hair on the baldest person you ever met.  

So here I am, "returning to bethel".

Friday, September 18, 2009

Amish

THE AMISH REPORT JUNE 2009

One of the best ways to get to know the Amish and learn their culture is to hire yourself out as their driver. You could take them shopping, to doctor appointments, or to weddings and funerals. I enjoy the trips that are just for visiting family. They usually run from three to seven days, and you stay right there with them in their homes. Of course, you'll have to put up with the inconveniences for the sake of ministering to them. Most hired drivers insist on staying in a motel.

In May, Mr. & Mrs. L hired me to drive the family down to VA for a visit with Mrs. L's family. Her mom's home is not very big, so I stayed with the neighbors. We made this trip last year, and I knew what to expect, yet I was pleasantly surprised to get clean sheets on the guest bed this time. They also had a tub put in with running hot water piped from the wood stove's reservoir!

If you remember my letter from last year, this VA community is known to be much more open to Bible disussion. Sunday's sermon from the bishop was great, but Wednesday's Bible study and the daily morning devotions at my host's home were lacking in even common sense. I find their ignorance staggering. Every morning, my host would read from a Mennonite devotional book, read the scripture, and pray before breakfast. And, every morning, after reading the scripture, he woul express his confusion with the passage and ask me whaat I thought it meant. After a few words from me, he would shake his head and say, "No, I think it means . . ." For example, he read from Matthew about the Abomination of Desolation of which Daniel prophesied. I briefly explained about that time during the Tribulation period. He thought a while, then shook his head saying, "No, I think it refers to televisions and computers."

Another morning, he came to the word "her" (referring to a woman in the prior verse) and thought it was referring to Christ. He said, "That's strange. I've never heard of Christ referred to as a female before." I didn't want to be the one to expose his ignorance so I waited to see what would happen. I was relieved to hear his 21-year old son point out that Christ was talking about the woman mentioned in an earlier verse.

As I related the content of morning devotions to Mr. L, he would in turn tell me about his biblical discussions with this same man. He couldn't get over how this man could pray such lovely prayers in public yet understand scripture so poorly. The man was still clinging to his works to save him from hell, and he wasn't the only one in the community to believe this way. Mr. L came to the conclusion that to move to VA would be no different than the bondage he's been living under here in Michigan.

The actual trip was very enjoyable. We listened to many sermons that I had on CD and discussed them. They just couldn't get enough of the Bible teaching. On the way home, we stopped for a few hours in Ohio to visit a former Amish couple who are missionaries to their own people. Mr L was quite nervous about stopping there lest anyone back home find out. It is against their rules to eat at the same table with an "infidel" (someone who has left the Amish). Of course he doesn't believe they are infidels, but, after a recent six-week ban, he's not taking any chances.

I spent most of that Ohio visit outside with the L's children. I knew the L's had lots of questions for this coulple, in spite of being reluctant to stop, and I wanted them to feel free to bare their hearts and be without interruption. Mr. L seemed to be flying high by the time we left. He was so encouraged by the visit. He couldn't get over that this man's life experiences were identical to his own, and he talked about it most of the way home.

The L's are definitely not content to go on living like they do, yet Mr. L feels God is leading him to stay Amish as long as possible in order to try to open the minds of the other Amish men toward God. This last week he said to me, "I;m feeling convicted about always having to bug my neighbors for the use of their telephone and asking for rides. I feel I should be responsible for having my own set of wheels." Pray that he would know the Lord's clear leading and for boldness to proclaim the truth.

Since the VA trip, I have started a chronological study through the Bible whith Mrs. L and her two oldest children (8 and 10) on Thursday afternoons - upon her request. For the first coulple of studies, the unsaved English neighbors showed up and totally took over the conversation with nonsence talk. On the third Thursday, just the two girls came over, so I asked them to sit down and join in on the study. They haven't been back sice, yet, their mom recently asked Mr. L a theological question. He said it was the first time in all the years he's known her that she has expressed interest in God. Now, he has a chance to share all he has been learning - and to an Englisher at that! He's been convinced up until now that his life-style would say it all - that he doesn't have to speak words in order to lead someone to Christ.

During last year's VA trip, I spent a lot of time teaching music rhythm to Ivan. Remember, he's the one who taught himself solfege using eight glasses filled with different levels of water - all while making goat cheese. This year, he's been working out in the shed more and now has eight different sizes of wrenches hanging from a beam to play his songs on. He and two others taught a regular music class to the young people once a week throughout the winter months. He said he couldn't get the group to understand timing. They could not even clap the beats together, let alone understand dotted quarter and eighth notes. So, he asked if I would give a music class while I was there. What an interesting experience.

We met in the beautiful log schoolhouse one evening for class, and almost 30 of the 40 youths showed up. Even some of the adults were there to observe this new teacher. Working with two new hymns, I reviewed what they had already learned using two ostinatos from each hymn - one involved the dotted quarter and the other the dotted eighth. After an hour, they successfully clapped the beat while singing the rhythm of both hymns. Ivan was ecstatic! I thought that perhaps he was counting his chickens before they hatched when, at the end of class one gal asked, "Why do some notes sound longer than other notes?" I almost gave up, but explained it one last time in as simple terms as I could. I wasn't too discouraged when I found out that she didn't do well in math either.

After class, the girls swarmed around me to ask for my address or ask questions about different hymn tunes. I used my recorder to play the tunes in class - something they had never heard before and thought was beautiful. They are not allowed to have any musical instruments - not even the usual harmonica - so this was a real treat. I told them that in Germany most children learn the recorder in school - hoping that would impress them to change the rule. They have asked me to come back sometime for a whole month to teach more music theory.

Upon reaching home, I had another three-day trip lined up for the weekend to southern MI. This trip was with Mr. & Mrs. PW - the woman with whom I had started a Bible study over a year ago but stopped because she fell asleep each time (instead of telling me she wasn't interested anymore). Amish are pretty good at conveniently falling asleep when they don't want to listen to you. The PW's have even been to church with me three times over the last three years - not because they are interested in learning the truth, but, as I found out later, because they are naturally rebellious and love to get away with breaking the rules in secret.

After spending the weekend with her parents, I understand why Mrs. PW treats me with disrespect. Her mother lumps all Englishers into the same mold and seems to despise us. She said things to me like, "I bet you sit around all day crocheting in front of the TV." And, at mealtimes, the family spoke only Amish most of the time. Oh boy, I sure felt like I was in the way. Mrs. PW's dad seemed friendlier but carefully steered all spiritual talk away. I'm sure Mrs. PW warned them about me ahead of time. She once exclaimed to Mrs. L, "That Charlotte! She's always talking about the Bible!"

When traveling with Amish, the husbands usually sit in the front seat. Since Mr. PW is somewhat mentally challenged, not much meaningful conversation happens, so I took advantage of the time to listen to sermons on CD's. Both the PW's "fell asleep" during the sermons, but Mr. PW promply woke up when the sermon ended and exclaimed, "That was a powerful sermon!" They usually are listening while pretending to sleep. :)

Please KEEP PRAYING FOR THE AMISH. Your prayers and concern are greatly appreciated and they do make a difference!

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Neighbors, Christians and Manners

I only have a few minutes to put my thoughts down, but I wanted to ask you to please continue praying fo us and our situation with our neighbor. To explain it all would take a long time, so I'll skip that. Thank you for all who have prayed, who are praying , and who will continue praying. It is really terrible to have a neighbor problem. You feel very intimidated, and that every move you make, is under their scrutiny. We'd love to resolve it all, but seeing that Mr. B is in his late 70's there is little chance of anyone changing him except the LORD JESUS.
Several years ago I read this quote on a magazine ad for Roman Meal Bread.
"You can't change a man, unless he's wearing diapers"
This is so true. I spent alot of time trying to change my husband, or things about him, but I can't. The things I tried to change weren't bad, they just bugged me. When I realized that all I was doing was bugging him about what bugged me about him, and that I was hurting us, and he wasn't going to change for me, a little bell went off. The only way any man is going to change is because he wants to change or God does it, and/or a combination of the two.
The past few weeks have been eye opening in a way. It hurts when people you think love and care about you, outright lie to you, or covertly decieve you. I'm talking about bretheren. Of course, Bob has always said that alot of the bretheren are less kind, gracious, longsuffering... of one another than lost people are of us and each other. Sadly that is true. The saying about people disappointing you is so true.
It has been hard to accept that some people I care about deeply, do not reciprocate those feelings. People I regard as close friends barely acknowledge phone calls, or emails, or letters....
And don't get me started about Pastors! No offense to any of you preachers/pastors and your wives. Any one desiring to be a pastor, preacher, missionary etc should be REQUIRED to take a thorough course in manners and etiquette; it is a sad sad day when the business man has more courtesy and respect for his collegues and customers, than a pastor, preacher et al does for the bretheren, his friends, etc.
I am not talking about true absent-mindedness. In fact, a very dear brother we know makes no bones about his memory problems, which he's had for years. He is truly afflicted, and hates it. But always apologetic and gracious.
In particular older pastors and preachers et al, with huge ministries, who travel world-wide preaching and teaching etc, seem to have mastered the art of responding to correspondence-email or snail mail, phone calls, etc. and we have the letters to prove it. Why is that? What has happened to the more recent generations?
My opinion is that somewhere along the way, we take people and fellowship for granted. The brethren and sisters who read this, who because of where God has called them, find themselves isolated from their family, church home etc....they KNOW what I am talking about. They treasure every second of fellowship they can get. They soak it up like a sponge, for the dry season they know is somewhere ahead, that might be 3 months or 3 years.
We take tomorrow for granted; but tomorrow never seems to come. We put off writing, or calling, so when we have more time, or things are less crazy, we can make a connection.
Aren't we supposed to love one another? Why is it that we write our own version of that, not in words but actions, to read, tolerate one another?
I promised to be short, and I have to get back to my pots and pans, which beckon me to cook some more.
Thanks to those who love us and pray for us.

Monday, April 6, 2009

Today my mind is wandering to the future. Many questions are whirling around in my head. Alot of them have come about as a result of the mission's conference last week. The need for workers in the fields is great. Each missionary, each field, made me ask, "Is that where one of my children will go?" In our flesh, in our physical world, at least in our family/home, we don't have much to give as far as money goes. Yes, our home is beautiful, glory to God, and it is a great gift of love from Him to us, but our home is more than just the painted walls, and furnishings. What we have to give is priceless. We have offered up our children for His use. Now I realize that their full surrender to God is a personal choice that they must make for themselves, but we as parents desire our children to be vessels fit for the Master's use. Our heart's desire is that God will take them and use them, and that not one of them would refuse Him. These thoughts have alot of emotions attatched to them. As a mom, in one way the last thing I want is for my children to go live in a distant land, and only visit with us every few years. I don't want to go to bed at night and wonder if my child is safe or being watched or taken to prison for preaching the glorious Gospel of Our LORD Jesus Christ. In my flesh, in the natural mother's heart, I don't want them to go very far from home, EVER. But with eternity in view, I want them to go for God without thought for dear old mom and dad. I want them to be consumed with Jesus. In fact, the last few months I have really begun to expect that in my golden years, if the LORD tarries that long, I will sit in my rocker, praying for my children, grandchildren, and maybe great-grandchildren, to stay by the stuff, to keep on for God, to fight the good fight, to finish the course, to reach for the prize of the high calling of God. My mind is set upon them all being far from me, and yet close to my heart. I am expecting them to be warriors and servants in distant lands, to go to the regions beyond and to say with all that in them is, "Here am I LORD send me" And if the LORD determines that they need not all go so far away to serve Him, then i will be extra blessed. I give up my children for the service of the KING of Glory-Jesus Christ. What more can I give? The other question that naturally follows, well several of them, are: when and where will they go? will they marry? who will they marry? when will this all come about? David is on the verge of marriage, Godwilling. What plans are in his future after that? We are so isolated, it is hard to keep my eyes of the practical issue of meeting prospective brides or grooms. Years ago I wrote to a precious sister about this matter. I told her that I believed that if necessary God would bring them to our front door-their car could break down, or asking for directions, or "accidentally" finding the wrong house. When I get a case of "how in the world will..." I remind myself of this...God's way are not our ways, His thoughts are not our thoughts. He can do anything, nothing is impossible with Him. All we know is we want God's choice.When a family friend was about to marry, I began to fret, and wonder how we would ever be able to give our daughters wedding gowns and pull-off even a small wedding. This was going through my mind on a Tuesday as we drove home from town. Tuesday was the day that the clothes house was open (over the years we have gotten many items from them free of charge) so we decided to stop on the way. We ran in and then out pretty fast for us. But oddly enough they had a wedding dress that particular day. Never before had I seen one there. As we drove up the hill for home, I went on and on about the wedding dress, chiding myself for not getting it. After we unloaded the van, Bob told me to take Charity back and look at it again. Off we went. The wedding gown was still there. We carefully removed it from the hanger, and one of the workers came over and held it close to Charity. I looked like it would be a perfect fit. Then more of them workers gathered nearby, formed a circle and prayed for her. They GAVE us the dress! As we were leaving they asked when she was getting married. I just had to laugh as I told them, she didn't even have a "boyfriend". They were amazed, and yet happy to give the dress to her. To Charity, it seems to be a promise that one day she will need that gown.To me, that was more a blessing to me than to Charity, because I'd be wondering about buying all the things you'd need for a wedding. It was God's way of telling me, in a dear, loving, gentle way, "Terry, see, you don't have to worry about anything. I've got it all under control" During the missions conference, they had special sessions for just the ladies with the main speakers wife, Mrs. Ireland. She spoke on the topic of "Prodigals". I wasn't able to talk to her but she really helped me by repeating my own words back to me, though we have never met. But during her lesson she said something very profound. "Control is an illusion" God is the one at the controls, He allows things to occur for our good, and learning. The greatest thing I can do as a wife and mother is to stop trying to control anything and reliquish control to my great Father, who doeth all things well. The future of our family will be full of changes, the unexpected-good and bad, but God is in control. And we know His way is perfect.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Sermons and Soap

This is just going to be brief because I am totally wiped out today. The late nights, up to 2am+ for over 2 weeks has caught up with me. Today we figured out how to put sermons online. The first one is from today. It is called COME OUT. You can listen to it on our site www.boazbaptist.com/sermons or www.sermon.net/boazbaptist Remember that we are a small home-church, with a relaxed atmosphere. The purpose of putting this sermon out there is to help, to edify, to encourage. We apologize for the less than great quality. We are in the process of getting the proper equipment to record digitally. Thanks for your understanding and patience.

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Monday, December 8, 2008

While I still have the nerve...

Since I got up the nerve to post about Gothard, as an aside to that, by following a link on that page, I ended up reading the article TEMPERAMENT ANALYSIS
Today I am posting a link to a topic which I was not very familiar until earlier today. My Pastors, from the early 1970's to mid 1980's, were adamant in the warnings against it. Quickly skimming the first few paragraphs, their voices echoed their warnings in my mind. (Am I am the only one with "voices" from the past in my head?)

This might stir up trouble, but I must pass it on, and let the chips fall where they may. My intent is to inform, ok, WARN, and let the reader do with the information what they or their husband deems right and proper.

Bill Gothard

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving

Wishing you and yours a blessed Thankgiving. As you gather with friends, and loved ones, far or near, take time to stop and pray and praise the LORD for the greatest blessing for which we should be thankful, not just on Thanksgiving, but everyday--the FREE gift of Eternal Life, by Grace through faith. What blessed people we are.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Please Pray

Monday, November 24, 2008
Please Pray!!!
Please read this story here to find out the horrible things that are happening to these boys/girls homes that have been helping troubled kids for years. Your prayers are truly needed for all of those involved in this! Let's fight the forces of Satan by coming to the throne and finding grace to help in time of need!

The Hephzibah House is another that has been attacked and they are already trying to pass legislation to shut down all homes in that state.

These kids are so much better off in the environment and programs that these homes offer. They need to stay up and running!

FEEL FREE TO POST THIS ON YOUR BLOG ALSO! WE NEED TO GET THE WORD OUT TO CHRISTIANS ACROSS AMERICA AND THE WORLD!

Please comment if you are praying!